
A Blessed Child, Indeed! “If I had my life to live over, I would start barefoot earlier in the spring and stay that way later in the fall. I would go to more dances. I would ride more merry-go-rounds. I would pick more daisies.” - Nadine Stair ~ Jana enjoying a 1913 Herschell-Spillman Classic Wood Carousel, Henry Ford Greenfield Village, Detroit, MI in 2009!
Monday, March 14, 2011
The More Things Change…Oklahoma Senate Joint Resolution (SJR) 15
What My Grandmother Taught Me: Vigilance
Saturday, January 8, 2011
Teen Mother Program Becomes Coed
Read & weep.
Teen mother program becomes coed NewsOK.com
Sunday, January 2, 2011
But I Know Better...It's All God!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ms5OKEmB8oc
It's All God ~ The Soul Seekers with Marvin Winans
Psalm 27:13 (NIV) ~ "I remain confident of this: I will see the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living."
National Wear Red Day - Friday, February 4, 2011
On Friday, February 4, 2011, Americans (Men, Women, Girls & Boys) nationwide will wear red to show their support for women's heart disease awareness!!
http://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/educational/hearttruth/materials/wear-red-toolkit.htm
Dallas Here We Come!
Super Bowl XLV!
Patriots use finale as a tuneup - Miami Dolphins - MiamiHerald.com
It’s Time Again To Count Our Many Blessings
Check out her 11/24/10 contribution to the Ada Evening News!
It’s time again to count our many blessings
Saturday, January 1, 2011
Happy 2011!
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Choose To Live! Premiering on NBC
Go Red For Women Presents® - Choose To Live! Premiering on NBC in national syndication
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“Wild Young Hearts”
Caught the Noisettes on Ellen this a.m. Although I was offput by “the look” on the promo, I REALLY like “the sound”!
http://entertainment.timesonline.co.uk/tol/arts_and_entertainment/music/article6795058.ece
http://www.latimes.com/entertainment/news/la-et-recordrack23-2009sep23,0,768191.story
Monday, September 21, 2009
Implementing An End-of-Life Plan
http://pfp.aicpa.org/NR/rdonlyres/C9B0F760-9268-42E0-A0B3-D6763A178D9C/14367/10063378_hospiceguideWEBFINAL.pdf
http://www.feedthepig.org/
Feed The Pig - Tools to Conquer Your Inner Under-Saver
http://www.360financialliteracy.org/
360 Degrees of Financial Literacy
Mad Men: 2009 Emmy - Best Drama Series
Word to the wise: If serving liquor for an office celebration, be sure to leave the riding lawnmower at home. To be safe; if for some obscure reason there is anything with John Deere written on the side in the office, confiscate all alcoholic beverages, prescription medications, etc. and keep the number for your WC and general liability insurance companies handy.
Congratulations to the Mad Men production team, cast, and crew!
Friday, September 18, 2009
Calling A Spade A Spade
A couple of days ago, I was on my way home from the doctor's office and caught the tail end of an NPR story concerning the phrase "calling a spade a spade"--is it a racist remark or not? For the life of me, I cannot find the story online. It sounded like a backhand apology that included the origin of the phrase and acknowledgment that the phrase is considered a racial slur by some. If anyone can help me out with a web link, I would appreciate it. I really would like to listen to the entire story. Based on the recent articles I have been able to find online, no doubt the original NPR story had something to do with the now infamous "You Lie" that has rang??-rung-reverberated 'round the world.
Concerning the phrase, those that readily acknowledge the racial connotation include Webster, Merriam, Oxford, American Heritage, Google, and OMG--Wikipedia! In the past, Random House maintained a website that I really like. It's still up, but I don't think they update it anymore and some of the links take you back to their home page. Check it out, I like how RH (The Maven) answers the question.
http://www.randomhouse.com/wotd/index.pperl?date=19970115
Now, while we are on the subject. There is another question I would like for you to ponder. Why would the pot call the kettle black, if the pot did not believe that being black was something derogatory or offensive? This is one of those questions that make you go Hmmmm... After many years of contemplation and scholarly diatribes, I keep coming back to the same place--Black Is Beautiful; therefore:
- I do not use the phrase "That would be like the pot calling the kettle black" to add emphasis to hypocrisy. I believe in "calling it like it is". What's wrong with, "Isn't that a bit hypocritical?"
- When I am in the presence of someone who uses this phrase, I stare at them blankly. Like, I'm lost and not understanding the point.
- If anyone questions my blank stare, I ask the question, "Why would the pot call the kettle black"?
- This usually leads to an intellectual discussion to assure me that no negativity was intended and/or to convince me that the statement is not nor has ever been racist in intent.
- Which then leads to a discussion with regard to the statement being used out of context. Since Black is Beautiful and there is no negative implication or intent, it would therefore not be hypocritical for the pot to call the kettle black. Out of context!
In effect the pot would be saying to the kettle, "you are beautiful"! Even though they look differently, come from different stock, and /or have different utility; there is a sameness; a oneness. The pot is saying "I see you, do you see me?" So the proper context to use the phrase would be when you observe some interaction that is out of the ordinary or unexpectedly beautiful--like a horse fanning flies off of a cow, or a dog and a cat playing tag in a field of daisies, or three elders--one black, one white, one brown--laughing and talking, idly lounging on the grass at a beautiful lake watching parents and children of all ages, hues, and national origins running and playing with colorful kites as sailboats dot the distance. Such a beautiful sight would be breathtaking and evoke the phrase, "Wow, that's like the pot calling the kettle black!"
Thoughts? Comments? I love to agree to disagree; you won't hurt my feelings.
Friday, August 28, 2009
Thought For Today
Friday, August 21, 2009
Barbie and the Cow Tongue
Saturday, August 15, 2009
Yes, I've Read Section 1233 - Part II
We had a grand celebration for Grandma Luticia’s 100th birthday. Grandma Gray--who was an only child--and all the grands, great-grands, and great-great-grands; plus her neighbors, church friends and church dignitaries. There were considerably more people at her birthday celebration than there were at her funeral one year later. Proclamations, telegrams and cards came from all over the country sending birthday wishes to the travelling evangelist that was instrumental in building many churches across the United States in her 70+ years "working for the Lord". Willard Scott from the Today Show sent a birthday-gram as well and apologized that they were unable to recognize her on air. It seems that there are thousands of Americans turned 100 every month and they couldn’t show everyone’s picture on television.
Grandma’s obituary says she departed this life following a sudden illness. Actually, it would have been more truthful to say that she departed this life because she was 101-years-old or because she was really, really old, but I’ve always leaned towards the dramatic when I’m writing! ;-) But that’s how it happened—the way most of us would like to go. One minute she’s talking to Grandma Gray on the telephone (she still lived alone) and 15 minutes later Grandma Gray shows up with her afternoon meal and Sister Tish is on the floor and not breathing!
And now to why I’m sharing this with you. The EMTs revive her and the emergency room revives her again. The question comes up about life support and the decision is made to hook her up to allow time for other family members to come and say goodbye. So my Mom and I hop in the car and make the 100 mile drive in record time. Fortunately (by the grace of God), my uncle who lives 2,100 miles away was already in town for a visit. So after everyone who could arrived at the hospital to say their farewells, the attending doctor was told he could disconnect the respirator. He advised us that she really didn’t have that long with or without the respirator, so it was best to leave it on so that we wouldn’t be second guessing our decision later. After a few hours, Sister Tish passed on to Glory, the respirator was removed, and we said our goodbyes again.
Weeks later we discovered that Grandma Tish had discontinued her life support much early than April 15th. Most of her pills--her daily, life sustaining prescription medications—were discovered in neat little piles between her mattress and box springs. Which supports my theory that she only wanted to be 100-years-old! I just imagine she had talked this out with the Big Guy and was pretty upset with all the reviving and the respirator. Loved ones never want to let you go, which is why we all need an advanced directive and someone knowledgeable—like our personal physician—to explain the provisions and the process. And this discussion should be covered by Medicare, just like Section 1233 of HR 3200 outlines.
Living wills and advance directives for medical decisions
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/living-wills/HA00014
Oklahoma Advanced Directive for Health Care
http://okpalliative.nursing.ouhsc.edu/documents/ADirectiveHealthCare%20Form.pdf
Oklahoma Advance Directive Act
http://okpalliative.nursing.ouhsc.edu/documents/SB1624_ENR.pdf
Friday, August 14, 2009
Social Security: What Does The Future Hold?
Source: AICPA 360 Degrees of Financial Literacy
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Yes, I've Read Section 1233 - Part I
These healthcare reform wars are driving my batty! In the beginning I was watching the news in amazement—couldn’t believe what was happening--the distortions, the rants... Now I’m just plain mad; afraid to watch the news with the remote close by because I’m afraid of where it will end up. What really has my blood boiling is all of the hype and down right lies about Section 1233—death panels, assisted suicide, blah, blah, lies, and more lies! I know some folks that are going straight to hell when they die. I guess what makes it so bad is that these fear mongers have twisted a provision of the proposed legislation that makes perfect sense to me—ethically, legally, and humanely.
I cannot count the number of times over the past two years that I have been asked if I have a living will and if not would I like additional information. But this is not why I favor the provisions of Section 1233—which I have read! It is because of my three abuelas that I feel so strongly—Grandma Tish, Grandma Gray, and Granny Fannie. All brilliant, business-savvy, forward thinking women; my sheroes who all spent their last days without an advanced directive.
MAÑANA: Grandma Tish (04/01/1890 ~ 04/15/1991)
FACT CHECK: No 'death panel' in health care bill
http://bulletin.aarp.org/yourhealth/policy/articles/fact_check_no_death_panel_in_health_care_bill.html
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
“Unshakeable Human Spirit”
Watching the news play of this prestigious occasion, I was struck by the humanity that the awardees have demonstrated throughout their lives / careers. While I was pleased that President Obama’s first “class” for such a high honor was truly representative of our country, I was more pleased by the diversity of life endeavors / choices of the awardees—which is why they were really chosen. But what made me beam from ear to ear was the fact that I KNEW who these men and women were and I got it! I mean, if I had to pick 16 people; I could not have done a better job! And I must admit, I wondered why it took so long for a few of them?
I am extremely proud today!
Speaking of the recipients, I remember the first time I saw a Sidney Poitier movie—1967, Guess Who’s Coming To Dinner. We went to the drive-in theatre to see it. It was one of my Mom’s favorite—she was a big Spencer Tracy fan and this was his last movie. In the early ‘80s my pre-teen son and I were at my Mom’s watching the movie for the umpteenth time. I think it was my son’s first time and as is customary with youngsters, he was stretched out on the floor paying more attention to something else than the movie. Are so we thought. Later over dinner, he posed the question, “Granny, what is a Negro?” My Mom looked at me with raised eyes and it was apparent that she was trying to stifle her laughter in the same manner that I was.
Of course, it wasn’t a funny question; definitely not asked in a manner to evoke laughter. If we had laughed, it would have been that nervous, almost hysterical laughter that comes with embarrassment. Embarrassed not because of the answer or the asker, but that the question had to be asked. Embarrassed because the eleven-year-old son and grandson of “black social activists” didn’t know what a Negro was. Embarrassed because although we had been dragging him to NAACP meetings and women’s rights rallies most of his life, realization was setting in that there might be a few things we had missed in our “upbringing”.
Blah. Blah. Negro. Afro-American. Black. African American. I think I’ll text my soon-to-be 13-year-old granddaughter and ask her if she knows what a Negro is. Somehow I “know” that my son has covered this base, but just to be on the safe side… I‘m certain the movie will be on real soon and in addition to Academy Award winner, they will no doubt add “Medal of Freedom” recipient to Mr. Poitier’s credits. And well they should!
Remarks By The President
At The Medal Of Freedom Ceremony
http://www.whitehouse.gov/the_press_office/Remarks-by-the-President-at-the-Medal-of-Freedom-ceremony/
Obama Honors Tutu, Hawking, Poitier, Robinson
http://www.google.com/hostednews/afp/article/ALeqM5iRnKBodM6zq-0VIu5q4dVSlNGecg